I remember the first time my husband and I tried to get pregnant; it took months and months for us to conceive. I know how painful it was to have to wait and wait. Each month, I remember hoping and praying that this would be the month that I found out that I was pregnant.

God’s timing is not our timing. I know now that if I got pregnant months and months before, I would not have my Micah or my Malia that I have today. You see, there would have been a completely different set of chromosomes and I would’ve had completely different children than my children that I have today. God really knows what he’s doing!

I believe that the best thing that you can do is to pray to God to give you that baby that He has planned for you and trust Him. He knows when the right time is for you to become pregnant. Sometimes it’s hard to realize that God’s plans are not always our plans. But our Heavenly Father really does understand what you are going through and loves you dearly.
If you have been trying to conceive and cannot get pregnant, I encourage to spend time in prayer each day. Our Heavenly Father longs to hear from you and cares about every need you bring before Him.

In Deuteronomy 30:19-20, it says: “ I call heaven and earth as witnesses today against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both you and your descendants may live; that you may love the Lord your God, that you may obey His voice, and that you may cling to Him, for He is your life and the length of your days; and that you may dwell in the land which the Lord swore to your fathers, to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, to give them.”

Ladies, we need to obey our God and pray life over our babies and speak blessings and not curses. Here is my prayer for you today:

Dear Heavenly Father,

I call heaven and earth as witnesses today that I speak life over my child and not death, I speak blessings and not curses; I am choosing life, that my descendants may live; I love you, Lord my God. Help me to obey Your voice, and that I may cling to You, for You are my Life and you determine the length of my days.

Jesus, You are my Messiah, the Lord of Lords and the King of Kings. Please help me to conceive this month and give me a healthy and full term baby. You already know every hair on my child’s head and I take that as comfort and I put my faith in You alone, oh Lord.

Help me and my children to follow you all of the days of our lives. Thank you, Jesus.

In Your Beautiful Name I Pray,



I would also like to encourage you to go to our Prayer Request Page and send me a prayer request that I can post to the prayer wall. We have a team and a worldwide community that would love to pray for you to conceive.

Living a Healthy Lifestyle

One thing to consider and I do feel strongly about is that God gave us very clear instructions on how to live a healthy lifestyle. If we do not take care of ourselves physically, by eating properly (good nutritious foods), exercising daily, getting enough sleep, and reducing stress, our bodies will break down and may not work properly. We all know that smoking and drinking alcohol is not ok during pregnancy. These can contribute to both infertility and miscarriage.

And please hear this-- I am not saying that if you eat healthy and exercise daily, that you will conceive right away or will not miscarry! Only God can determine whether or not we have our babies, but I do believe that He wants us to make a conscience effort to live a healthy life according to His plan.

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